Growing up in the church, I thought I had a solid understanding of how my story would play out.
But in each relationship there were things that didn’t feel quite right.
In some relationships, I found myself compromising some of my values to be more in line with that guy’s.
In other relationships, I began to think that some of the things I had wanted in a husband were perhaps more wishful thinking than things that could actually be.
There seemed to be 10 girls for every single available guy in church.
Then there was the pressure of every person I knew asking about my relationship status every time I saw them.