However, that feeling of jealousy or envy may not be about wanting to reconcile with your ex but rather about wanting to be in an intimate relationship.You may be feeling jealous of what you see your ex now enjoying.I am not interested in getting back with this person, but I am curious about the feelings I guess. I can only try to piece pieces of information you’ve given me and what I know about this type of situations to try to make sense of what’s going on.My take is that your ex may have hoped that things might work between you but was not sure if the “stress” problem was behind him. I found out a month after I broke it off that I was pregnant. I would be laying in his bed waiting for him to get back from the strip club, even though it killed me. I know he's a bad person, but I've always loved him. There's not a doubt in my mind that I'm not keeping this baby... It hurts that he doesn't even care that I'm pregnant, because at one point he wanted this. It's always your choice, but I want to put a few things out there. The guy you knew before he turned mean and abusive. You are also likely thinking he will return to his senses after awhile, especially once you have the baby- dump this new woman (whom he is probably being like he was to you at first) and plead forgiveness, say he was just stupid and scared and made a huge mistake. Going out to strip clubs, getting drunk at bars every night. So I officially ended it with him even though it killed me. I would literally cater to him - make him breakfast, pack his lunch, make him dinner, wash and fold his laundry. My ex is with someone else and has been dating her for over a month now.
You did what you felt was right for you at the time!
At the end they asked if we could still be friends and I stated “You left me when I needed someone the most.
Not even a friend does that.” And we have not talked since and quickly after my ex started dating someone else but I have been told it is not the same between them as it was between he and I. Also why did he want to talk to me if he had made up his mind to move on? Yangki’s Answer: There is obviously a lot of history to this, but to answer to what you’re curious about. No one really knows what any one’s feelings are unless the person feeling them says what they are.
He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends.
A lot of people want that to be a big drama but I noticed a change in his behavior towards me instantly.